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Tuesday, December 26, 2006
BFF?
24th Dec - Christmas Eve
Not much celebratin this year other than meeting up with the working ladies @ Tiffins Room, Raffles Hotel for a christmas eve breakfast buffet which is not half bad actually. As per usual, we stuffed ourselves with tons of food (being typical singaporeans), exchange presents and soaked ourselves in the christmas atmosphere with the beautiful decor at Raffles Hotel.
Phoebe got me the complete season 1 & 2 of Grey's Anatomy!!! (Love her to bits!)
Rachel got me a bottle of perfume from perfume bar @ shaw centre. The bottle that hold the perfume is really unique.
I will post the pictures up later when dear rachel can find time to send me the photos taken using her camera.(This girl owes me tons of pictures)
Dear phoebe had to work in the afternoon shift on christmas eve, thus leaving rachel and i to wander around city hall and do some catching up while eating more ice cream at Haagen Dazs. I've been thinking about this notion of whether best friends are forever... We can be best friends now but will we still be best friends ten years down the road, when we get so caught up with work, with success, with our bf/family, with our newfound friends somewhere along the way? I've not had a long chat with Rachel for quite some time now, in fact, i can't seem to remember when was the last time we sat down and talk. Not just about superficial things like what we've bought on previous shopping trips, or some random cute guy we met at a club/bar but simply on how each other have been and the troubles/success we had.
I don't believe in drastic changes in a person's thinking or character, well, unless that person had a life-changing encounter. It got me thinking on the reasons that caused me to feel like i don't know my best friend as well as i did before. Could it be because we have not been spending quality time together? That we weren't with one another at certain point in time to see the changes? and when we are together, are we just meeting up for the sake of meeting up? because we're best friends? Are we taking each other for granted after over 10 years of friendship? So many questions in my head but none i've answers for... Maybe i'm thinking way over my head but aren't there always a triggers to the doubts that we have? And so,
Not much celebratin this year other than meeting up with the working ladies @ Tiffins Room, Raffles Hotel for a christmas eve breakfast buffet which is not half bad actually. As per usual, we stuffed ourselves with tons of food (being typical singaporeans), exchange presents and soaked ourselves in the christmas atmosphere with the beautiful decor at Raffles Hotel.
Phoebe got me the complete season 1 & 2 of Grey's Anatomy!!! (Love her to bits!)
Rachel got me a bottle of perfume from perfume bar @ shaw centre. The bottle that hold the perfume is really unique.
I will post the pictures up later when dear rachel can find time to send me the photos taken using her camera.(This girl owes me tons of pictures)
Dear phoebe had to work in the afternoon shift on christmas eve, thus leaving rachel and i to wander around city hall and do some catching up while eating more ice cream at Haagen Dazs. I've been thinking about this notion of whether best friends are forever... We can be best friends now but will we still be best friends ten years down the road, when we get so caught up with work, with success, with our bf/family, with our newfound friends somewhere along the way? I've not had a long chat with Rachel for quite some time now, in fact, i can't seem to remember when was the last time we sat down and talk. Not just about superficial things like what we've bought on previous shopping trips, or some random cute guy we met at a club/bar but simply on how each other have been and the troubles/success we had.
I don't believe in drastic changes in a person's thinking or character, well, unless that person had a life-changing encounter. It got me thinking on the reasons that caused me to feel like i don't know my best friend as well as i did before. Could it be because we have not been spending quality time together? That we weren't with one another at certain point in time to see the changes? and when we are together, are we just meeting up for the sake of meeting up? because we're best friends? Are we taking each other for granted after over 10 years of friendship? So many questions in my head but none i've answers for... Maybe i'm thinking way over my head but aren't there always a triggers to the doubts that we have? And so,
Are Best Friends Forever?
posted by JESS at 12:09 PM
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